Your little one will do things at their own pace, but you can watch for certain developments around certain times. Here is a rough guide of developmental milestones to celebrate with your child as they learn and grow.
Developmental Milestones: 9 Months
Cognitive
- Recognizes people and objects at a distance
- Recognizes and responds to familiar words
Motor
- Holds an object in each hand
- Scoots or begins to crawl
Communication
- Looks for and reacts to sounds outside line of vision
- Babbles echo actual words with vowels & consonants
Social
- Distinguishes between strangers and family
- Shows frustration when limits are set and tests limits
Developmental Milestones: 10 Months
Cognitive
- Understands how to use many objects
- Expanding attention span, from two to three minutes at eight months / 15 minutes at 12 months
Motor
- Rolls over quickly and suddenly
- Crawls
- Sits up unsupported for long periods
- May stand
Communication
- Recognizes own name
- Shakes head or frowns to express “no”
Social
- Accurately mimics expressions and sounds
- Enjoys being around other babies (but can’t yet play)
Developmental Milestones: 11 Months
Cognitive
- Understands that objects have names
- Attracted to new toys and objects
Motor
- Points and pokes with index finger
- May briefly stand on their own
Communication
- Gestures to communicate
- Understands many things said to them
Social
- Imitates actions of adults and other children
- Waves good-bye
Developmental Milestones: 12 Months
Cognitive
- Looks and listens simultaneously
- Follows one-step commands, “Lift your arm”
Motor
- Crawls up stairs
- May take first steps or walk
Communication
- Responds to simple questions and one-step commands
- May use “Mama” and “Dada” to refer to parents
Social
- Shows separation anxiety when you leave the room
- Shows increased affection with family
Developmental Milestones: 12-15 Months
Cognitive
- Actively explores objects by touching and moving
- Points to objects you name (nose, pictures in a book)
Motor
- Takes first solo steps or may even walk fairly well
- Climbs stairs and scoots down
Communication
- Uses at least one to two words around first birthday
- Responds to questions and requests
Social
- Shows preferences for certain people and things
- May say “no” to express frustration
Developmental Milestones: 15-18 Months
Cognitive
- Puts objects in and takes them out of containers
- Imitates real life in play, like feeding a doll or talking on the phone
Motor
- Climbs on furniture
- Removes some clothing; helps when being dressed
Communication
- Uses a single word as a sentence. Ex: Juice
- Understands concepts of up, down, off, and hot
Social
- Easily frustrated
- Increasingly understands that they are a separate person from you with their own preferences, feelings, and ideas
Developmental Milestones: 18-21 Months
Cognitive
- Knows how household items are used, like a spoon to eat
- Points to at least one body part when asked
Motor
- Jumps in place or from a bottom step to the floor
- Walks
Communication
- May say up to 30 words by 18 months
- Tries longer, multi‐syllable words
Social
- May have tantrums when upset, however tantrums peak between 18 and 24 months
- May have quick emotional shifts
Developmental Milestones: 21-24 Months
Cognitive
- Names simple objects in a book
- Follows two‐step requests
Motor
- Walks with balance along curbs or logs
- Able to turn knobs, push buttons and turn pages
Communication
- Uses simple phrases or puts words together, like “All gone"
- May refer to self by name instead of saying “I“
Social
- Makes broad, often quick emotional shifts
- Becomes more interested in playing with other children
Developmental Milestones: 24-36 Months
Cognitive
- Figures out simple mechanical toys
- Completes puzzles of three or four pieces
Motor
- Runs with more coordination
- Jumps
- Learns to kick a ball
Communication
- Uses pronouns: I, we, you
- Says name, age, and gender
Social
- Plays with other children rather than just side‐by‐side
- Understands the concept of possessives like mine, hers
From rolling over to running around and talking, their developmental milestones are worth celebrating at every turn.